Its Not About Me

Don’t push your way to the front; don’t sweet-talk your way to the top. Put yourself aside, and help others get ahead. Don’t be obsessed with getting your own advantage. Forget yourselves long enough to lend a helping hand.
Philippians 2:3-4 MSG

Dr. Bob Miller

Dr. Bob Miller

Paul presents two choices. Two clear options that root themselves focused on our “own-ness” or on others . . . into self or into serving. The apostle gives an example of Jesus’ surrender, submission and service. Paul instructs that we should embrace the “mind of Christ” as we engage those around us.

This strategy requires us to set aside self and serve. Our own promoting and positioning gives way to a passion and priority of others.

Self-Promotion. The struggle of our soul is to be selfless. Faith requires a fight against the flesh . . . saying no to me and yes to others. Paul writes, “Don’t be selfish; don’t try to impress others. Be humble, thinking of others as better than yourselves.” (Phil 2:3 NLT). Thinking of others before we think of ourselves is the key to kindness. Matthew Henry reminds us, “Kindness is the law of Christ’s kingdom”. Promoting self always means we prioritize self. Rick Joyner writes, “We can build influence by self-promotion, but God will only promote those who do not promote themselves. That which is built on self-promotion will have to be maintained by human striving.”

Self-Positioning. The apostle gives some advice, “Don’t look out only for your own interests, but take an interest in others, too.” (Phil 2:4 NLT). Seeing with clarity and compassion starts with seeing others through God’s eyes. Brown writes, “Instead of fixing your eyes on those points in which you excel, fix them on those in which your neighbor excels you: this is true ‘humility’.” Positioning others ahead of ourselves promotes peace. The writer of Hebrews reminds us, “Make every effort to live in peace with everyone and to be holy; without holiness no one will see the Lord.” (Heb 12:14 NIV)

Saint Francis gave the following prayer of selflessness . . .

“Lord, make me an instrument of your peace,
Where there is hatred, let me sow love;
Where there is injury, pardon;
Where there is doubt, faith;
Where there is despair, hope;
Where there is darkness, light;
Where there is sadness, joy.
O Divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled, as to console; to be understood, as to understand; to be loved, as to love.
For it is in giving that we receive.
It is in pardoning that we are pardoned, and it is in dying that we are born to Eternal Life.”

Let’s be defined by serving . . . instead of self.

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